Pearls of Grace in the News

Why do we feed ourselves mostly on a diet of negative news? Studies suggest that the reason is physiological – the brain’s negativity bias is about survival. We simply pay more attention to negative information.

The odd phrase, “If it bleeds, it leads,” runs rampant in today’s news coverage. One study showed that on a “good news day” there was a 66% decrease in readership in an online Russian newspaper! However, news guru Arianna Huffington (founder of Huffington Post and CEO of Thrive Global), claims that readers want more positive news. She describes a journalist’s job as providing the “full picture” of what happens every day. She advocates for news that tells “…how people are…coming together, even in the midst of violence, poverty and loss…[and] all the other stories of innovation, creativity, ingenuity, compassion and grace.”

Perhaps others caught these pieces of positive news items from 2023, but I missed many of them and I watch a fair amount of TV news broadcasting.

  •   Malaria vaccine – The World Health Organization approved a new vaccine for malaria; a pilot program shows that it reduces deaths among children by 13%. Every year nearly half a million children die from malaria.
  •        Medical firsts – Bahrain, U.K. and the U.S. have all approved Casgevy, a therapy for the blood diseases sickle cell and beta thalassaemia. It is a gene-editing treatment which merited the Nobel Prize (2020). The first vaccine for RSV, a respiratory virus serious for children and elders, rolled out (I received this vaccine, thanks to researchers) and was instrumental in finding a new class of antibiotics.
  •        LGBTQ+ rights – Same-sex couples in Taiwan can adopt children now. Same-sex marriage is newly instated or about to become legal in Nepal, Thailand, Hong Kong, the Czech Republic, Estonia, and Poland. Japan’s Supreme Court addressed transgender rights; surgical sterilization is no longer a prerequisite to change one’s gender.
  •        Criminal justice reform – The death penalty was abolished in Ghana (the 124th country to take this action). While the U.S. still maintains the death penalty, it is used with less frequency and there is a trend toward decarceration with no corresponding rise in crime.
  •        Some reduction of weapons of mass destruction – Peru, Bulgaria, Slovakia, and South Africa destroyed their final cluster munition stockpiles, the last countries of 112 that had agreed to do so in 2008. The U.S. is one of 191 countries committed to destroying chemical weapon stockpiles; a final rocket with sarin nerve agent was destroyed in Kentucky.
  •        Global wealth equality is increasing and poverty is decreasing – Global median wealth increased by 3%; the Swiss bank UBS’s reporting predicts that global wealth will grow 38% in the next 5 years due to middle-income countries like India.
  •        Climate advancements – Electric vehicles are more present. Deforestation in the Amazon is on a decline.

Like my bumper sticker says, “Grace happens. Let’s inch closer and notice.

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

253. How might you increase conversation about positive news?

254. What steps can you take to problem-solve negatives in your community?

A Resolution Roadmap

A recent YouGov poll found that only 16% of Brits had any intentions of making New Year’s Resolutions this year, with women more likely to engage in the practice than men; this is down from 63% in the same poll in 2015. Americans appear more inclined – YouGov polling reports 34% for making New Year’s intentions for 2024.

However, according to researchers, the percentage of Americans who complete their resolutions is only 9% while 23% OF FOLKS GIVE UP ON THEIR RESOLUTIONS AT THE END OF THE FIRST WEEK AND 43% SWERVE OFF COURSE BY THE END OF JANUARY.

Is tradition unappealing to people today? Or is goal-setting too daunting these days? Did setting unrealistic goals overwhelm individuals in past years? Perhaps people wanted rewards for their accomplishments and found no pleasure in waiting for any affirmation after their hard-earned effort.    

Here are some “rules-of-the-road” for making your resolution a reality:

  1. Expect a snafu or two — something unaccounted for may temporarily obstruct your path of completion – keep going.

  2. To make your new habit stick, you may need to keep repeating it for a minimum of 66 days, according to some research. (This is another way of hinting, “Keep going.”)

  3. Break down your resolution into chunks so that you can realize and celebrate small victories along the journey.

  4. Make some plans for accountability. Write your resolution on paper and attach it to a place you will see it often. If exercising or eating healthy choices are your resolutions, perhaps you enlist the help of a friend or coach to support your efforts.

Actually, I endorse setting a resolution anytime of the year. I like the approach of Chilean American writer Isabel Allende. When she was forced to leave her homeland during a military coup that resulted in the assassination of her relative, Salvador Allende, she wanted to keep her family memories alive. She began writing a series of unmailed letters when her 99-year-old grandfather was dying in Chile and she could not visit him. Allende’s letter-writing turned into a 500-page first novel, The House of the Spirits. Allende began her writing January 8th; she waits for that day to begin each new novel.

Allende certainly faced a major snafu in life, but she had grit, defined by psychologist Angela Duckworth as passion plus persistence. She kept writing (for more than 66 days). By writing letters, she broke down her writing into chunks. I wonder if she had an accountability partner, but maybe having 3 out of 4 “rules-of-the-road” works too.

I call making any-day-of-the-year resolutions rewiring! Brains love novelty, so you will find energy by focusing on a desired change. While it takes a growth-and-grit mindset to make some change in your life, you can succeed if you KEEP GOING!

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

251. What resolution do you want to make happen in 2024?

252. How will you include plans for making your intention come true?  

Christmas Pearls

Christmas Eve 100+ years ago (2014) found German, British, Belgian and French soldiers celebrating the holiday by singing together in the midst of World War I. Territorial battlelines were crossed. Language borders were crossed. Soldier orders were crossed. The newly installed Catholic Pope, Benedict XV, had asked for a Christmas truce, but his earnest request did not receive any blessing from officers.

Reports from soldiers over the years have blurred war memories, but certain survivors remember a fragile peace on a moonlit night: “First the Germans would sing one of their carols and then we would sing one of ours until we started ‘O Come, All Ye Faithful,’ the Germans immediately joined in singing the same hymn to the Latin words Adeste Fideles, and I thought, well, this is really a most extraordinary thing…nations singing the same carol in the middle of a war.” Other versions of that extraordinary night focus on the singing of Silent Night, Holy Night. No one seems to know exactly where the first singers emerged.

I am reminded of words attributed to anthropologist Margaret Mead: “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” It can take a long time to change the world, but never doubt that any small change has depth. This 100-year-old Christmas story provides a legacy blessing for our times.

On Christmas Day in 1914 some German soldiers ditched the precarious protection of their trenches and held up signs: “You no shoot, we no shoot.” Some soldiers traded gifts of cigarettes, food, buttons, and hats. The Christmas truce even delivered the ability to bury opposing fallen soldiers who were frozen in place, struck down in territory between trenches. Stories vary, but Adolf Hitler, a Corporal of the 16th Bavarians, reportedly reprimanded German soldiers: “Such a thing should not happen in wartime. Have you no German sense of honor?”

If you look up the word honor, the noun means “adherence to what is right or to a conventional standard of conduct.” As a verb, honor means “to regard or treat (someone) with admiration and respect.” An argument must be made that war defies what is “right” – killing, looting, and other horrors do not treat others with respect. Yet, Hitler found followers to tear down decency.    

Many people on our precious planet commit to peaceful problem solving where we build up one another in times of disaster. It is a possibility that more folks will become thoughtful citizens and change agents in the new year. Might we begin with school children on the playground? Before recess can kids create personal posters with their version of “You don’t shove, I don’t shove?”

A pearl can take from 6 months to 4 years for mature development. Surely, people are capable of maturity. It is our birthright.

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

249. How do you define what is honorable?

250. What peaceful problem solving will you engage in today?     

Pearls of Engagement

Why do “rules of engagement” or ROE have a military definition? The “rules” in ROE refer to guidelines for the ways in which the use of military force is deemed “acceptable.” Often, these rules breakdown in combat with terrifying consequences.

The word engagement simply means “an arrangement to do something or go somewhere at a fixed time.” A popular use of “engagement” refers to a loving agreement to marry another, not wipe them out. However, relationships sometimes are at war. We need rules for engagement.

Psychologist John Gottman’s research on couples can predict a divorce or breakup-in-the-making if the “Four Horsemen” are present – criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling. The #1 piece of advice from the Gottman Institute for sustaining a romantic relationship applies to other relationships too — turn toward (connect with) another’s bids successfully to pay attention; care about even small stuff that another person finds important in the moment. Make bids a practice. If needed, it is OK to prompt someone verbally: “I’m making a bid for attention now.”

We are creatures of belongingness or social connections, but loneliness is on the rise in the U.S. According to the Surgeon General, Dr. Dr. Vivek Murthy, loneliness tops other major health issues in the U.S. In a New York Times guest essay, Murthy reports alarming circumstances with a breakdown of engagement with others: Loneliness is more than just a bad feeling. When people are socially disconnected, their risk of anxiety and depression increases. So does their risk of heart disease (29%), dementia (50%), and stroke (32%). The increased risk of premature death associated with social disconnection is comparable to smoking daily — and may be even greater than the risk associated with obesity.”       

Playwright Tennessee Williams challenged loneliness (Camino Real): “When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone.”

Murthy challenged Americans to a “5-for-5 Connection Challenge” between December 4th-15th.

Step 1 – Commit to connect (by choosing 5 actions and 5 days in a row to connect with people;

Step 2 – Connect each of the 5 days (through choosing an action each day such as expressing gratitude, offering support, or asking for help);

Step 3 – Reflect and share (by first asking yourself, “How did connecting make me feel?” Let others know about your experience and invite them to join the challenge). How did connecting make you feel?  

Here are my reflections after I took up the Surgeon General’s exercise. I enjoy connecting with others, so this “challenge” was not difficult on the surface. I found that offering support is ingrained in my training and experience; it is a natural practice. I do offer gratitude frequently, but I plan to increase this one. Asking for help is not my general practice (except in technology snafus). I found pearls of engagement in Murthy’s challenge. Let’s extend his 5-day challenge for engagement.  

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

247. Where might you need practice in offering gratitude or support?

248. When do you connect with others by asking for help?                                

Wisdom Viewpoints

Our viewpoints come from our ability to see from a particular place or range of vision. Unfortunately, many live within unsafe ranges due to war and other traumas. Fortunately, my family is healthy and wealthy in family/friend connections; we continue working on being wise. We don’t mind changing a bit of the ole’ proverb, as Ben Franklin’s Poor Richard’s Almanack repurposed the proverb from a 1639 book authored by Rev. John Clarke. I follow the initial words – “Early to bed and early to rise.” Winter sunrises are a special treat these days.

My urburb (urban suburb) is a special kind of town. Recently it has become a sanctuary for immigrants sent here from Texas. Many of the newcomers are from Venezuela and arrive without winter clothing. It is an amazing story that brings them to the U.S. One might argue with the Texas governor’s approach to immigrants but realistically, one state cannot take in everyone who crosses the Texas border. The church members in Oak Park have poured their compassion into housing, feeding, and clothing immigrants. The long lines of tables holding clothing and blankets at a local Catholic church were incredible this fall. Volunteers sort through bags of donations that just keep arriving. With weather changes, the sorting operation moved into the spacious sanctuary with the pews overflowing with winter supplies on weekdays.

When were your ancestors the immigrants? Wasn’t it just a few generations ago? I have most details about my maternal grandfather, Joseph Edward Whitacre. Our ancestor, Quaker John Whitacre (1678-1737), was born in England and traveled to Philadelphia, PA on the ship Brittania in 1698-1699 according to a ship passenger list. One individual’s view of this 14-week voyage of Quakers seeking religious freedom is really chilling to read – of the 140 passengers, 56 died at sea and at shore another 20 died. There had been an epidemic in the Philadelphia area (presumed to be yellow fever). Within a 10-week period, nearly 200 Quakers died (this was occurring at the time of the arrival of the Britannia which was dubbed “that sick ship from Liverpool”). The Quaker Meeting folks took care of the numerous orphans.

Yellow fever was lethal to many English settlers who continued a steady stream of border crossings following the “Pilgrims” who arrived in 1620, but this disease was especially devastating to Native Americans (see 11-20-23 blog). Have you collected your immigrant stories? They provide a special point of view.

In ancient Egyptian views, the Eye of Horus carried significance as the “good eye,” a symbol of healing, protection from harm, and knowledge. Wisdom is precious and hard to find in much of our planet’s politics today. Let’s aim our “good eye” toward collective wisdom. The original Christmas story told of three wise men, but undoubtedly there were wise women as well. Let’s increase the numbers of both!                                                             

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

245. What stands out in your immigrant family stories?

246. How do you increase your wisdom on a daily basis?  

Caregiving Stressors

Picasso’s Weeping Woman (1937)

“The Quiet Rage of Caregivers,” by New York Times reporter Catherine Pearson (for the Well section), outlines perennial stressors that caretakers face in their care of someone who is ill physically and/or mentally. Around 53 million Americans are caregivers for a family member or friend with a health issue or disability…nearly a third (31.3%) spend 20 or more hours per week in that role.”  

Consider a woman who has a sister with ALS and parents in their 90’s who live two states away. The sister had been the parental caretaker, but now she needs caretaking herself. Juggling a job with caretaking visits to three ailing family members at a distance takes a toll. “Caregiver Stress Syndrome” is a relatively new label for what once was termed “burnout” or physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion. The blurring of roles (caregiver vs. daughter or sister) can make caregiving an uncharted territory. Conflicting expectations and unrealistic demands can further impact one’s wellbeing.

Who takes care of the caregivers? According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention), over half of caregivers provide their caring for 2 years or more. However, 53% of caregivers report that their own health decline compromises their caretaking ability with 36% reporting insufficient sleep. One in four (25.4%) females are caregivers; one in five (18.9%) males are caregivers. Besides chronic health issues, U.S. caregivers may report symptoms of anxiety and/or depression, as well as secondary financial burdens.

Dedicated caretakers often do not give voice to their own neglected needs and feelings. Underneath “burnout” frazzled emotion lurks sad and grieving parts of their personalities.      

Gerontological nurse Allison Lindauer, associate professor of neurology with Oregon Health & Science University School of Medicine, conducts research and cares for individuals with dementia as well as their caregivers. She does not candy-coat the stress involved in caretaking: “There’s this myth of the loving caregiver.” Dr. Lindauer recognizes that anger and frustration often accompany long-term caregiving; actually, opposite and raw emotions are the norm.

With an aging U.S. population on the rise, more caregivers are needed. The Mayo Clinic offers “Tips to Manage Caregiver Stress:”

  • Ask for and accept help…Make a list of ways in which others can help you.
  • Focus on what you can do…No one is a perfect caregiver. Believe that you’re doing the best you can.
  • Set goals you can reach…Follow a daily routine. Say no to requests that are draining.
  • Get connected…Learn about caregiving resources in your area…such as rides, meal delivery.
  • Join a support group…[it] can be a place to make new friends.
  • Seek social support…Make time each week to visit with someone, even if it’s just a walk or a quick cup of coffee.
  • Take care of your health…Find ways to sleep better…Eat a healthy diet.
  • See a health care professional…Talk about worries or symptoms you have.

Speak up. Share your caregiving story with others.

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

243. Have you experienced Caregiver Stress Syndrome?

244. What is most helpful for your wellbeing at any time?  

Pearls of Caregiving

November is National Caregivers Month. There are many ways that caregivers make daily life possible for loved ones, clients, patients, or community members. Consider all the caregiving efforts of relatives, friends, church members, doctors, nurses, vaccine researchers, psychologists, social workers, police, and many more helpers during and after the pandemic.

While vaccines cut down on hospital stays and deaths for those getting COVID today, lingering symptoms of COVID still threaten with long-hauler consequences such as chronic pain, brain fog, shortness of breath, anxiety, depression, and fatigue. PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) from COVID-related experiences exists for far too many individuals. PTSD symptoms include negative thoughts, anger/irritability, casting blame, flashbacks, insomnia, self-isolation/distancing, and difficulty concentrating.

As Arthur C. Evans Jr., PhD, the American Psychological Association (APA) CEO points out, “We cannot ignore the fact that we have been significantly changed by the loss of more than one million Americans, as well as the shift in our workplaces, school systems and culture at large. To move toward post-traumatic growth, we must first identify and understand the psychological wounds that remain.”

In conjunction with The Harris Poll, APA conducted a 2023 nationwide survey of 3,185 U.S. adults ages 18+. Almost a quarter (24%) self-rated an average stress level of 8-10 on a scale where 1 stands for little to no stress and 10 designates a great deal of stress. This reporting is an increase from pre-pandemic 2019 when the percentage was 19 %. Increases were found across all age groups except for those 65+. Of those who are parents of children under the age of 18, 48% reported that their stress is completely overwhelming; 41% of this group viewed their stress as so serious that they reported they cannot function. Nearly half (47% of the total sample) reported wishing for someone to help them with their stress levels, but 62% do not talk about their stress as they do not want to be a burden to anyone.

These Stress in America 2023 results show that adults ages 35-44 are reporting the most significant increase in chronic health challenges since the pandemic began – 58% compared with 48% in 2019; they also are the age group with the highest increase in a mental health diagnosis (45% reported a mental illness in 2023, while the percentage was 31% in 2019).

The stress survey results could not cover the immigrant families who arrive in the U.S. almost daily with incredible stress portfolios.  We can only guess what the stress levels are for the families around the world who find themselves as innocent bystanders of incapacitating wars.

Mr. Rogers could never imagine how much his famous words apply to a worldwide pandemic followed by raging war stories: “Look for the helpers.” We are looking for more helpers, the caregiving pearls, especially in caring for the children who are victims of unspeakable cruelty in too many places.

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

241. What are your experiences in being a caregiver?

242. When have you needed caregiving yourself?

Legacy of True Thanks

Great-grandmother, Oakland, Maryland

A legacy has 3 ingredients: learning the truth about the past, living in the present, and building for the future, although people frequently substitute learning truths for embellished myths and then live in that past delusion, not in present moments.

This week of Thanksgiving, I keep gathering a long list of things that I am truly thankful for in this moment of time. I am especially thankful for my family, including ancestors with their legacy of strong values. While none are famous in the popular sense of fame, they possessed hero and heroine status in their own everyday ways.

The Wampanoag people who established sophisticated communities for 13,000 years — prior to the 1620 English immigration to “Plymouth” in “Massachusetts” — were everyday heroes and heroines too. (The new settlers named “Plymouth” for the port of Plymouth in England where they had set sail; “Massachusetts” was the first of many U. S. states to be given a Native American name.) 

Truthfully, it was due to the Wampanoag sharing of hunting and planting strategies that kept the Pilgrims from starvation. In October, 1621, 90 Wampanoag Native Americans and 52 Mayflower survivors gathered for a three-day feast. It was the Wampanoag’s daily legacy of giving thanks for nature’s bounty that predates the Pilgrim version of Thanksgiving.

The true Thanksgiving story contains tragedy for both the Pilgrims and Native Americans, but this is rarely the story told to school children. The reason for the Puritan passage was a desire for religious freedom, however an anticipated legacy of future freedom was short-lived for many. Out of 102 passengers (and 30-40 crew members) of the Mayflower’s December arrival, some died enroute and nearly half of the Pilgrims could not survive their first winter of religious freedom in America.

As told by Stephen C. O’Neill (The Life of Peregrine White), one young family’s plight seems poignant. William and Susanna White were Mayflower passengers with their 5-year-old son. Suzanna was pregnant and brought a wicker cradle onboard for baby Peregrine who was the first Pilgrim birth in the “new” land. Dad William died in February.   

The Pilgrims docked at an abandoned village where corn had been planted. Thankful for perceived good fortune, they had no idea that their “discovered” land was abandoned by Native Americans due to a rampaging illness (believed to be leptospirosis spread by rat urine contaminating standing fresh water).

Later, yellow fever was lethal to many English settlers but was especially devastating to the Native Americans. One estimation is that 45,000 Wampanoag, or two-thirds of these heroic people, succumbed to this epidemic.

The legacy of our ancestor stories is a cornerstone in our personalities, yet no one wants to talk about legacies of ancestor illness. For those of us truly fortunate to survive the COVID pandemic, let’s give thanks for health, a wealth far greater than any other.

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

239. What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving week?

240. How might you search for true stories of your ancestors? 

Stop Sign Pearls

Could you use a few personal stop signs for a more peaceful life? Our planet could use a few global stop signs to curb all ways of violence.

William Phelps Eno, referred to as “Father of Traffic Safety” is given credit for inventing and promoting usage of stop signs. Born in New York City in 1858, he experienced an indelible memory as a 9-year-old child with his mother in Manhattan when they were entangled in a horse-and-carriage traffic jam. Later Eno quipped, “There were only about a dozen horses and carriages involved, and all that was needed was a little order to keep the traffic moving. Yet nobody knew exactly what to do; neither the drivers nor the police knew anything about the control of traffic.”

In 1900, Eno wrote his essay, Reform in Our Street Traffic Urgently Needed. Three years later Eno created the first known traffic code for New York City. Following up, he developed traffic plans for Paris and London.

Recipient of a hefty inheritance when his father died, Eno had freedom to create a brand-new career — traffic management. In addition to realizing a desperate need for stop signs, Eno also designed the pedestrian crosswalk, the one-way street, the taxi stand, and pedestrian safety islands. He is perhaps most famous for his “traffic circles.” There were almost daily accidents at Columbus Circle (Manhattan) where his rotary planning coalesced in 1905. Eno specified that traffic must keep to the right and circle the driving pattern in one direction, not two different directions. With safety as his muse, Eno continued his rotary plans at the Arc de Triomphe (Paris, 1907), and Piccadilly Circus (London, 1926).

Eno established the Eno Center for Transportation (Washington, D.C.), a think tank for improving transportation that continues today. He espoused 3 ingredients for accomplishing any worthwhile project:

1. “We must have concise, simple and just rules, easily understood, obeyed and enforced under legal enactment.

2. These rules must be so placed and circulated that there can be no excuse for not knowing them.

3. The police must be empowered and ordered to enforce them…men [and women] should be trained for that purpose.”

With Eno’s law-and-order legacy, it is curious that he never drove a car — he never learned to drive, despite being given an honorary driver’s license in France in 1912. Were traffic accidents unresolved trauma for him? He lived a long (and presumably safe) life, dying at age 87 from pneumonia. Perhaps Eno felt safer on water than on city streets; he was the first owner of the steam yacht named Aquilo, meaning “the ancient Roman personification of the north wind.”

Our planet could benefit from less long-winded rhetoric and more “urgently needed” agreement on “simple-and-just” rules for safe living, both on roads and elsewhere. Stop signs are reminders that everyone’s safety counts.

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

237. Where do you need a stop sign in your personal life?

238. What rules might you suggest for the safety of everyone?                   

Pearls of American Heritage

Croatian Ivan Meštrović – The Spearman – Chicago

November is National Native American Heritage Month. American school children have been fed a regurgitated Pilgrims-and-Indians Thanksgiving story which continues to permeate our culture today. Early in the 20th century a Seneca Indian, Dr. Arthur C. Parker, requested the Boy Scouts to recognize a day honoring “first Americans.”

Parker was born in 1881 on the Cattaraugus Reservation (Seneca Nation of New York) to Frederick Ely Parker, who was one-half Seneca, and Geneva Hortenese Griswold, of Scots-English-American and Christian missionary heritage, a schoolteacher on the reservation. Parker’s family moved to White Plains, New York, where he entered public school at age 11 with a budding interest in the American Museum of Natural History in New York City. He became an assistant archaeologist there before attending college. Befriended by Frederic Putnam, professor of anthropology at Harvard, Parker was encouraged to study anthropology. It took years before following through, as Parker first tried on his grandfather’s plan for him to be a minister; he left seminary before graduation.    

Parker became an incredible historian for his culture, as well as an archaeologist, folklorist, and museologist. He was one of the founders of the Society of American Indians to educate the public about Native cultures. His devotion to Native American lore is best demonstrated by this noble account of a fire in the New York State Capitol:

Parker entered the building while it was ablaze and made his way up to the 4th floor…to save priceless historical artifacts. He brought a tomahawk, which had been passed down through the generations in his family, and began smashing display cases, saving as many items as he could. Of the approximately 500 Iroquois artifacts…he was able to rescue about 50 of them before the spreading fire made any further salvage efforts impossible.”

In 1990 President George H.W. Bush signed into law the month of November to honor the pearls of Native American culture, traditions, and achievements. One way to honor “first” heritage is to acknowledge the land you’re on – the Art Institute of Chicago built on lands of the Potawatomi, Ojibwe, and Odawa Native Americans.

According to historian and Potawatomi member John Low, the Potawatomi believed, “…the land is Mother Earth. You can’t own it — it’s like owning air, owning the stars.” The local tribes were tolerant and welcoming to Europeans, assuming these newcomers’ intentions were peaceful. Diagonal trails became Milwaukee Avenue and Ogden Street.

In 1833, the Treaty of Chicago outlined how members of the Potawatomi, Odawa, and Ojibwe nations living in Chicago had to leave. Along with cash payments for their land, the tribes were promised other land — east of the Mississippi River, in northern Wisconsin or Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. John Low’s people, the Pokagon Band of the Potawatomi, possessed a bargaining chip to remain; they had converted to Catholicism. What happened to freedom of religion?

Pearls of Peace (PoP) Quiz

235. When do you remember to give thanks for Native American contributions?

236. What ways can you incorporate your thanks into your Thanksgiving preparations?